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Definitely a morning to be asleep, rather than writing, & going to work? Out of the question… funny how I’m doing both then <sigh>.
Quite a pleasant Sunday all n all we seem to be doing quite well at them at the moment. At home – no adventurous wandering – we did that Friday after I got home from work – dashed off to Burnley on the bus with Louise & Eve. Louise’s mum picked Jack up from school & took him to Bradford to see the Xmas lights. That was the plan anyway, but they only got as far as Halifax & looked at some lights there… Louise’s mum seems to say that it was Jack who wanted this, but… perhaps not. We got a few bit of Xmas shopping done in Burnley, but not that much really.
Tried to fix the old Dyson by taking out the bit of shorted wiring, but it did not work. The wire going ‘bang’ has either had a more serious effect on the wiring or the motor… ah well – I tried a little bit.
Jack’s bang on the head mentioned last week needs to be looked at further. I thought it odd that an area that looked like a recovering bad graze had no bruising associated & have been keeping an eye on it. Just past his hairline, there is this area of scabbing dry skin… & it’s starting to behave more like an infection (getting a little bigger) – so he’s going to school this morning, just to check with the teachers as to whether it’s OK for him to be there. He is likely to be going to the doctors at some point in the day. If he cannot go to school, then that blows his appearance in the school Xmas presentation – which is a bit of a shame – I was kinda looking forwards to that. Not sure how Jack will react to this as I’m sure he would like the opportunity to show off.

Train home

Phoned in on home to see how things were doing. Merry hell – Jack was playing up by the sounds of it – Louise is tired because Eve was at 6’s & 7’s in the night – making a fuss & wriggling about, so she did not get the nights sleep she needed.
Jack has not gone to school today as they suspect impetigo… poor lamb. He has a doctor’s appointment at 2:45, (someone cancelled) so I will go there directly from the train. In all likelihood they will not have seen a Dr by the time I get there – it’s just the way the surgery runs, but you never know! Jack confessed while on the phone, in whisper that I was just about able to catch, that he was ‘mad’ (angry) today – thus his bad behaviour with Eve & Louise I guess. Interesting that he confessed this… but what he is mad about? I don’t now, & if I get a chance to ask him, I don’t think I’ll get a straight answer. Perhaps it’s just not going to school that has set him off? He does like his routine. He will also, as mentioned, miss his school concert.
Eve is also delicate for the same reason that Louise is – she will not have had a good night’s sleep, & on top of that, she has not had a sleep in the day for a few days now. She can do this; miss daytime naps, but she does need to ‘catch up’ every few days to with a daytime sleep. Jack being at home will rule that one out, as she will want to play.

Jack & I made Xmas cards yesterday… well – we made drawing & scanned them into the computer & fiddled about. By the end of the evening I had actually got what was in my head down onto paper – which I was quite pleased about. Printed off a couple & left them there. Was late to bed though – although falling asleep with Jack as I tried to get him off to sleep offset this. He didn’t seem able to ‘switch off’ last night – a few stories & so forth & he still did not seem relaxed, so had to do the, “OK it’s time to turn the light out now” thing. We rested & he chatted a bit about this & that… The attic in his house, I think; he has his own imaginary house & boys & a whole town for that matter. I drifted off to sleep & awoke a little later – I would normally be free to leave the room at this stage, but as I moved, so did Jack – uh-oh, caught. Sheepishly: “I was just, um checking you were OK”. Back to snoozing & it was already late before I stirred again.. Still, I got what I wanted done (the cards). I just have to print a load out & try to sort out the other designs as well (already done, but how to assemble…). Didn’t get anything done in the attic for the 2nd night in a row… but – well – what the heck – If I’m not back up there tonight it will be tomorrow.
Eve was over tired yesterday & was in a mess of tears at bathtime – completely a mess. Louise managed to get her to bed & start reading to her, & suddenly she starts to perk up again, coming to see what Jack is doing in the bath & messing about laughing & all that. Suddenly she’s a bundle of energy again – not able to sit still & preferring to sit up to be read to rather than lie down. She did succumb to sleep eventually without too much fuss. She has been, on the whole in a really jolly mood of late.

I resisted telling Louise I had managed to do the cards last night, so that when she came downstairs this morning & saw them she was pleasantly surprised & was pleased with the way they looked – which made me chuffed :)

Eve was ill last night – she’d gone off to bed reasonably well for the excitable little thing she was. We were downstairs & I heard a little wail – nothing much, but a bit early for her to be stirring. She looked fine but had knocked her covers off, so I went to put them back on, but her bedclothes were wet. Uh, oh. Looked a bit closer & she had been sick. It really does baffle me the way she can vomit in her sleep & not be especially disturbed by it. It’s a bit worrying to.
We set about cleaning up a messy girl. Fortunately it was not much on her. She protested loudly when I took her pyjama top off over her head. The confusion of the situation must have been something. Took her to our room & she slipped into sleep while lying on me. Louise came in a few moments later to report that her bed was not too bad. Normally I get to clear up sick – so that was the wrong way round. We then needed to get some more bedclothes on her – again something to go over her head & again she was upset – but enough so to be sick again. Fortunately a handy towel prevented it our bed becoming victim as well. She was a bit more awake now – enough to be able to have a little medicine for her cough – which was most likely what caused the problem in the 1st place – coughing too hard – & get another change of pyjamas on her. That done she pleaded “Sleep” & she went to our bed for the night.
All in all a good weekend. Jack did go to on the Santa railway special on Saturday. A stream train & all – he seems to have enjoyed himself. Eve was most put out when Jack got on the coach without her. We had been in his classroom at school for some time before departing & Eve had been having a good time pottering about & exploring. She had started to put things in the toy oven & was enjoying that activity when an older boy (from Jack’s class) thought that it might be fair game to try to stop her. She was undaunted & faced up to his without any notion of respect for his size. She slapped him on the arm ineffectually a couple of time giving him her ‘how dare you’ glare. He persisted & tried glaring back to no avail. He got bored a bit, but she remained focussed. Whenever he left enough room she would sneak something else in the ‘oven’. When it came time to leave, she was the last out of the room before locking up (she discovered the dollies – eek). Protested as much as she was able at being put in the pushchair & was just calming down when we spotted Jack on the coach to wave bye-bye to. Jack was happy with a friend of his (Jessie) & Eve erupted in howls of protest again. She realised that Jack was doing something that she was not & was mad at not being able to be with him. We whisked her away & went to a cafe. That was about all we did with our free from Jack time as well. I could have done something constructive around the house or something, but no. When we got home Eve was tired, she was just about asleep & as I was carrying her laid down on the sofa with her – the intention vaguely to shift her off me, but I failed miserably & fell asleep with her on me for half an hour.
Sunday we went out on a short jaunt to Halifax. A rather uneasy realisation that we will have to be buying Xmas pressies soon.

Unprepared for Xmas. Cards not sent – presents not wrapped.
We did get Jack sat down after tea last night to write his cards to his school friends. He was back at school yesterday for the Xmas dinner (veggie substitute for turkey seems to have been cheese… how imaginative… )
He seemed jolly happy when he came out of school. I was there to meet him out of school with Eve as Louise was at ante-natal with the midwife. Weekly check-ups at this stage, & it seems that the baby is now ‘engaged’ – eep! Neither Jack nor Eve had the chance to be observed as being engaged. Immanent is definitely the status. If it is 2 weeks early, like Jack, it is tonight!
Eve has got obsessive about scissors at home today. She apparently had a pair as she followed Louise round the house yesterday – the evidence being snipped bits of card all over the house.

Jack fell asleep early last night – before tea was ready – so I guess he’ll be hungry this morning (he’s not normally that bothered about breakfast). Eve greatly enjoyed the evening without Jack & was quite delirious before she fell asleep – shouty happy & completely & utterly bonkers. Louise was a bit worried about Jack but he was fine (I went up & checked & he was dreaming away. I showed her the ‘friends reunited‘ website as it’s something I’ve recently been looking at. I think it’s just middle-aged morbidity, but it’s also dead weird how people’s lives diverge. As my parents moved every 3 to 5 years or so I went to a few schools & my memory, although pretty good is not a precise tool – faces rather than names – that sort of thing – so a lot of names mean nothing to me… Louise obviously has a better memory for this sort of thing & amused herself for a few minutes – before Jack woke up & we had to call a halt.
It took him a little while to settle off again & I suspect that he may have been awake a little in the night as well as I remember him managing to wake me at some undisclosed hour asking whether it was morning yet? It’s pitch black – the World Service is on the radio… “No, not it’s still night time”.
Jack & Eve were both awake before I left yesterday morning, so they had both have had a long day – especially as they had not really been out because it was miserable (weather). Jack was more his usual self & he & Eve played together very well. They do as a rule – for instance Eve will quite happily pass Jack logo bricks for building – sharing & teamwork.

Eve is most certainly teething. She was running a temperature yesterday. Louise said she was quite worried about her at one point, not knowing what the problem might be? When Eve woke from her afternoon nap, Louise says that she could ‘smell’ the fact that she was teething. Eve was also very lackluster all afternoon, although she had a good time messing about at playgroup in the morning. They had water so it got a little messy (kids, water, mess; there’s a thing). She had some Calpol in the afternoon & perked up a bit when I came home. Smile, play – cry when daddy goes of to collect Jack from school). We’d normally set off as a family group, but Louise opted not to as it was perishing cold out & Eve not being well & all that. Anyway – she came round very well for the evening. Not eating much of anything at tea time, (but a few sandwiched were plied earlier) running around like a mad thing with Jack, playing with her dollies (“Meow – dolly cat!”) and setting down quite easily to sleep after a good long bath with brother. As she had some Calpol she was not so keen on trying to sink her teeth into anything to hand (like shoulders when you carry her) as she could have been inclined.
I checked up on how she was sleeping before we went to bed ourselves & she was horizontal in the bed, & gave a few little shakes of the head (as she does when she’s teething).
Jack might have a school outing this Saturday. It’s supposed to be on the Worth Valley Railway – a Santa Claus steam train ride… He is keen to be going & is expecting to go. The trouble is, that there are only so many places, & they were on a 1st come 1st served basis. In theory Jack should have managed that, being one of the 1st in the day of the returned forms were required, but we would have expected some form of notification by now – the trip being this Saturday… So we worry that he is going to be disappointed.

And so; on the train to work once more.
That was a very pleasant Xmas. I enjoyed it. It was a good time to be at home with the family. The kids enjoyed their presents. It was all reasonably stress free & cosy… loving.
Whhhaaaa! I wanna be at home <pout sulk>.
New baby not here yet – Louise says that she does not feel that it is immanent, but then, how can you know such things? She has her antenatal check up this afternoon.

On the train home.

Ah – an easy day – well, nothing challenging – excepting actually getting a train home. Missed my normal train by seconds due to a platform change & the next one has been removed from the ‘revised winter timetable’ – so a mere hour & a bit later (this one is late) I’m homeward bound. I think Louise might have been relying on me to get home on time, as she has left her mum in charge of both kids at home… eek… Hopefully Eve will not have done a nappy & Jack will not have, well… not ‘taken advantage’ but ok… perhaps ‘taken advantage’ but not in a malicious way…
He is quite on the ball. Louise & I have been talking in passing about how Neil & Jess are going to be coming this Saturday in general. My brother… I think Jack quite likes him as they have had a few laffs when he has visited previously. Out of the blue, as I was putting the table & chairs away after tea, I mentioned that we are not going to have enough chairs. No day or no reason specific & I’m not sure if Louise knew what I was on about to start with, but Jack was straight into my musing & reasoning. He started discussing the seating arrangement should Neil & Jess need to stay for tea, or dinner, how he would sit next to …I forget now – & Eve would sit & we would need the chair from the attic. It’s not like we had been talking about their visit at any point soon & I was sufficiently oblique for it to just be a general muse. It makes you realise how much your kids pick up when you’re not paying attention.
Eve did a wee yesterday evening. Hmm – not an ‘event’ in itself, but she actually did it in a potty! That was a first! She does not have a lot of wilful control over such things at the moment, but she was in a jolly good mood all day yesterday & was willing to play along with the ‘sit on the potty’ routine. She sat for a fair while & exclaimed that she had done the deed a great many times, but still there was a dry potty. Oooh – she can be a tease. Still – she did do it eventually & got a cheer & a round of applause from everyone – even Jack. Unfortunately Jack seemed to decide that he would like some attention as well, & elected to do it by messing about with Eve’s playmobil house (Xmas pressie) – taking everything out & trying his best to annoy. As with such things he did succeed a little, but we are getting wily to this.

Oooh chilly wind this morning on the platform waiting for the train. Ooh – sat near a heater on the train now… aaahhhh…..
Eve & therefore Louise had a terrible night sleep. I fared a bit better, but had a lot of coughing to do. It feels as though my lungs may be clearing up after the most recent cold I have. I still have a cold, but I am less apt to get out of breath (it seemed as I strode to the station at maximum pace).
Had that feeling of being tall again this morning. Well, I am tall, but I had the same illusion the other day – like I had not really noticed it before. I wonder if I’m dreaming I’m someone smaller (like Jack). Jack slept through the night again, only to be disturbed by Eve trying to get into bed with him while making a loud fuss & crying a lot. Don’t really know what the matter was with her, but she was just unable to settle down again. Louise had to take her downstairs eventually. She must have started about 3:30 & probably had a good hour fuss-mongering. Perhaps she started with a bad dream? May have been trapped wind? Who knows… Jack was awake before I left & we read to each other. I read him a couple of books & he read me his reading book from school. Nice & cosy on the sofa with the spare duvet that Louise had brought down in the night. He’s been in a much better frame of mind recently. He was playing with string last night – he initially wanted me to unravel a huge mess of string, which we started doing, & after getting a few smaller bits out he could not resist meddling with the lump of knots that were left. Trying to untangle it himself, but he must have realised that he could not, so he endeavoured to make more knotty knots. I muttered about Gregorian knots & mused whether slicing it with a sword would do the job. It also struck me that tho the sword approach be a nice bit of lateral thinking, it’s not really solving the puzzle for the satisfaction of solving the puzzle… Ah well. By the end of the evening I managed to produce a ball of string without knots.

Louise said I was getting more like a bloke last night… Not meant as an insult as such, but certainly as a criticism. I don’t really like that, but I understand what she means. I guess it comes from work. Previously I used to work in a team that mainly comprised of women – now for the past year & three quarters I’ve been working in a laddish environment & it’s bound to have rubbed off at least a little. I have also become more cantankerous of recent. More Irritable. I used to be unphased by most things, but now I find I can get pissed off with things – like for instance I was irrationally mad at the trains Saturday morning for being so… crap. I would not really have worried so much about that previously. But then that was a Saturday, & I do not yet even like the idea of having to go into work yet, let alone being late when I set off early specifically to avoid late. On the way home things were more farcical, but I did not find myself raging against the situation. I did find I was bilious on the coach though. I am not travelling well on buses or coaches at the moment.
Hmmm this may be a little projection on Louise’s part as she does concede that she is doing her best to remain calm at the moment.
We set off for Leeds yesterday morning. We need a few things, so a ‘big town’ jaunt is the thing. We had a struggle getting ready as is so often, because Jack does not like getting dressed. He does not like changing clothes at all come to that. He kicked up a fuss about wanting to go on the Internet as well, but we needed to be away. Out into the rain for a dash to the station – Jack on my shoulders & Louise forging ahead with Eve in the pushchair. We did not make the train. It was (shock) on time – & as there is only the one per hour on the Sunday we gave it up for a bad job & went home . Got thoroughly soaked in another downpour on the way home – & there was a stinging cold wind as well (yuk).
We’ve got some old wallpaper on the beams in the attic that needs stripping. Jack was keen to do ‘some work’ in the attic, & that seemed a good option. It was a little difficult for him to help as it was so high up, but Louise held onto him as he stood on a stool & he got a peaked hat to try to prevent everything falling into his eyes. He did quite well. I took the kids out shopping while Louise stayed at home (which was a novelty). The kids seemed to enjoy it & as I was pushing Eve, Jack was quite happy to walk (realising that I would not be up for ‘shoulders’ routine).
Jack watched the ‘walking with beasts’ weekly repeat in the afternoon, & was rapt by giant whales & so forth & seemed quite convinced that they were real. A animal was injured at some point & he thought that God would make it better. Well – he does go to a CofE school – but I somehow don’t think that they are explaining things well to them. I am at best agnostic, but I certainly don’t think that they should be planting the idea that ol’ whitebeard would be interventionist. There lies easy disillusion…
Hmmm that reminds me – he was dreaming of giant ants the other day when he woke up in the night (previous week’s beasts). How very ‘Dali’.
He then played on the Internet. for a bit. Eve had a go as well, but she really does not understand it. She had a great time randomly swishing the mouse about & clicking on everything she could. She also refused any assistance with a wail of despair that it would all be snatched from her… so we (Jack & I) just let her get on with it. She was over tired really – but she enjoyed waving the mouse about for a good while before getting bored. Jack was good & let her do this for much longer than I thought he would tolerate. Eve went off for bath & bed. Jack was still playing on the net. Eve was very narky at having to put clothes on again protested somewhat. Once she’s calmed down enough she was off to sleep really quickly. Jack, on the other hand was less keen on bed, did not have a shower & took a long time to convince into sleep. He did sleep the night through though – something he does not really do that often.