Sunday night 9:00ish. So much for me keeping a diary. With out that little time to myself to & from work on the train I have difficulty finding the time.
Still – I do have a jolly good excuse for not finding the time, having Jude arrive the other day. How did it all go? It seems such a blur now. Receding into memory fog already. Bah.
We went to bed about 11:00 that night. I said to Louise, something like, “I know – orange for the stairs to the attic… same depth as the plasterwork so it can blend in well…”. A decision resolved in my mind, I could go to sleep again. Louise did not (really) get to sleep. Things started to happen… Stronger contractions & back pains. Louise labours in the back. She woke me at some point to express her concerns, but we were still at ‘wait & see’… so I managed to get some more kip. This is naturally a vague bit for me, as I’m more than half-asleep.
OK – it was definitely time to be waking up at 1:30. Let’s get things together. The hot water bottle on the lower back became essential. We phoned the maternity unit & Louise explained how she labours in the back & how quick Eve was last time. They actually did not dally & sent out an ambulance for us. That was very good, as it was not really something we were expecting – hoping, perhaps, but not expecting. We needed to call a neighbour & Louise’s mum as well. We could not really take the kids with us – they were asleep -sound asleep (what with us faffing about)… Andy got the call. He did last time with Eve, & was a star – rushing us off to hospital. He stayed at our house for the kids – so that they had someone they know when they woke up. Couldn’t get an answer from Louise’s mum.
We got to hospital a bit past 03:00, & Louise was put on the monitor. Contractions blahblah. We had a very good midwife, nice & calm & confident. Her parting remark as she left us was to alert her if Louise felt like pushing. After about 10 – 15 minutes she did. She came back & checked things over Then we were rolling! Hard to believe that Jude was born in under an hour from when we arrived at hospital!
hmm – it’s now 22:00 as I write this – I said to myself I would stop when it got here…

Not crying, honest… OK, about to cry maybe…
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